Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter

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  • RED FLAGS TO NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER (NPD) COMPILED BY JENI MAWTER
  • How does a relationship that feels so right …
  • … go so wrong?
  • NPD WARNING SIGNS IGNORE AT YOUR PERIL
  • NPDS ARE LOOKING FOR ENABLERS WHO GIVE „NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY‟ ATTENTION + EMPATHY + ADULATION
  • YOU ARE SELECTED BY HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPDS FOCUS
  • YOU BECOME THE TARGET FOR LOVE „BOMBING‟
  • AN INTENSE FOCUS IS ON YOU
  • IT FEELS LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN „CHOSEN‟ YOU ARE SPECIAL
  • NPDS ARE OFTEN CHARISMATIC
  • BUT…
  • NPD INTEREST IN YOU IS A PRETENSE
  • YOUR ENCOUNTER WILL BE LIKE AN INTERVIEW, NOT A CONVERSATION
  • NPDS „BANK‟ OR STORE YOUR EMOTIONS, THOUGHTS AND EXPERIENCES (EXPOSED WEAKNESSES WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU LATER)
  • THEIR LOVE IS ALL-CONSUMING
  • THIS FEELS PERFECT …
  • UNTIL …
  • NPDS HAVE AN INFLATED SENSE OF „SELF‟ SUPERIORITY
  • THEY EXPECT, AND DEMAND, TO BE WORSHIPPED
  • THEY HAVE A STRONG SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT
  • NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS OR WORDS THEY BLAME THE WORLD AND OTHERS
  • ABUSE STARTS WITH OCCASIONAL SUBTLE PUTDOWNS
  • EMPATHY IS FEIGNED
  • WITHOUT AN AUDIENCE NPDS HAVE NO EMPATHY
  • NPDS WEAR TWO FACES
  • FRIENDLY IN PUBLIC BACKSTABBING IN PRIVATE
  • NPDS ARE THE MASTERS OF CAMOUFLAGE
  • LOVE BOMBING CONTINUES YOU DROWN IN THIS SEA OF LOVE
  • BUT… DEVALUING BEGINS (USUALLY IN PRIVATE)
  • WHEN WORDS CONTRADICT BEHAVIOUR YOU FEEL CONFUSED
  • TO THE WORLD THIS PERSON IS PERFECT
  • TO THE NPD, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO AN OPINION
  • IT‟S “MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY”
  • YOUR VALUE COMES FROM HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPD – NOT FROM WHO YOU ARE
  • YOU BECOME ISOLATED LOSE FAMILY, FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES AND COMMUNITY
  • ATTEMPTS TO ASSERT YOURSELF LEAD TO „NARCISSISTIC RAGE‟
  • YET YOU FEEL SORRY FOR THE NPD
  • YOUR ROLE IS TO PLEASE THEM
  • NPDS ARE HYPERSENSITIVE AND PERCEIVE CRITICISM WHEN NONE IS INTENDED
  • NARCISSISTIC RAGE ESCALATES (ONLY IN PRIVATE)
  • MANIPULATION TACTICS USED TO CONTROL YOU GASLIGHTING DENIAL LYING EXCUSES
  • I never said that. You’re imagining things. You’re crazy. That never happened. Can’t you take a joke? COMMONLY HEARD …
  • MUCH OF WHAT IS SAID IS A LIE
  • AS A NPD VICTIM YOU NO LONGER TRUST YOUR OWN PERCEPTION, MEMORY, OR JUDGEMENT
  • BLAMING: NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS “IT‟S ALL YOUR FAULT”
  • YOU ARE IN A CYCLE OF VALUE AND DISCARD
  • YOU KEEP TRYING TO RETURN TO YOUR OLD RELATIONSHIP
  • YET YOU OFTEN WONDER…
  • YOUR BOUNDARIES WILL NOT BE RESPECTED
  • YOU‟RE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
  • ENABLERS DO NOT BELIEVE YOU THEY PROTECT THE NPD
  • YOU ARE SILENCED
  • SILENCED
  • YOUR ABUSER WON‟T LET YOU GO THEY CRY CROCODILE TEARS
  • WELCOME TO THE CYCLE OF ABUSE
  • NO, YOU‟RE NOT CRAZY!!! THIS WHOLE SITUATION IS CRAZY MAKING
  • YOU‟VE BEEN „NARCISSISED‟ AND YOU NEVER KNEW …
  • UNTIL NOW
  • FINALLY THE PIECES FIT TOGETHER!
  • NO MORE RED FLAG CONFUSION
  • Please share these other links on Narcissistic Personality Disorder http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/narcissistic-victim- syndrome-a-powerpoint-by-jeni-mawter http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/moving-on-from- narcissistic-abuse-compiled-by-jeni-mawter
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder is insidious and toxic. It destroys relationships with partners, family, friends, work colleagues and members of the community.

This slide show identifies some of the red flags that signal a relationship with someone with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

It is an attempt to explain aberrant relationship behaviours that may be observed at home, with partners, at work, or in community groups.
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  • RED FLAGS TO NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER (NPD) COMPILED BY JENI MAWTER
  • How does a relationship that feels so right …
  • … go so wrong?
  • NPD WARNING SIGNS IGNORE AT YOUR PERIL
  • NPDS ARE LOOKING FOR ENABLERS WHO GIVE „NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY‟ ATTENTION + EMPATHY + ADULATION
  • YOU ARE SELECTED BY HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPDS FOCUS
  • YOU BECOME THE TARGET FOR LOVE „BOMBING‟
  • AN INTENSE FOCUS IS ON YOU
  • IT FEELS LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN „CHOSEN‟ YOU ARE SPECIAL
  • NPDS ARE OFTEN CHARISMATIC
  • BUT…
  • NPD INTEREST IN YOU IS A PRETENSE
  • YOUR ENCOUNTER WILL BE LIKE AN INTERVIEW, NOT A CONVERSATION
  • NPDS „BANK‟ OR STORE YOUR EMOTIONS, THOUGHTS AND EXPERIENCES (EXPOSED WEAKNESSES WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU LATER)
  • THEIR LOVE IS ALL-CONSUMING
  • THIS FEELS PERFECT …
  • UNTIL …
  • NPDS HAVE AN INFLATED SENSE OF „SELF‟ SUPERIORITY
  • THEY EXPECT, AND DEMAND, TO BE WORSHIPPED
  • THEY HAVE A STRONG SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT
  • NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS OR WORDS THEY BLAME THE WORLD AND OTHERS
  • ABUSE STARTS WITH OCCASIONAL SUBTLE PUTDOWNS
  • EMPATHY IS FEIGNED
  • WITHOUT AN AUDIENCE NPDS HAVE NO EMPATHY
  • NPDS WEAR TWO FACES
  • FRIENDLY IN PUBLIC BACKSTABBING IN PRIVATE
  • NPDS ARE THE MASTERS OF CAMOUFLAGE
  • LOVE BOMBING CONTINUES YOU DROWN IN THIS SEA OF LOVE
  • BUT… DEVALUING BEGINS (USUALLY IN PRIVATE)
  • WHEN WORDS CONTRADICT BEHAVIOUR YOU FEEL CONFUSED
  • TO THE WORLD THIS PERSON IS PERFECT
  • TO THE NPD, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO AN OPINION
  • IT‟S “MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY”
  • YOUR VALUE COMES FROM HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPD – NOT FROM WHO YOU ARE
  • YOU BECOME ISOLATED LOSE FAMILY, FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES AND COMMUNITY
  • ATTEMPTS TO ASSERT YOURSELF LEAD TO „NARCISSISTIC RAGE‟
  • YET YOU FEEL SORRY FOR THE NPD
  • YOUR ROLE IS TO PLEASE THEM
  • NPDS ARE HYPERSENSITIVE AND PERCEIVE CRITICISM WHEN NONE IS INTENDED
  • NARCISSISTIC RAGE ESCALATES (ONLY IN PRIVATE)
  • MANIPULATION TACTICS USED TO CONTROL YOU GASLIGHTING DENIAL LYING EXCUSES
  • I never said that. You’re imagining things. You’re crazy. That never happened. Can’t you take a joke? COMMONLY HEARD …
  • MUCH OF WHAT IS SAID IS A LIE
  • AS A NPD VICTIM YOU NO LONGER TRUST YOUR OWN PERCEPTION, MEMORY, OR JUDGEMENT
  • BLAMING: NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS “IT‟S ALL YOUR FAULT”
  • YOU ARE IN A CYCLE OF VALUE AND DISCARD
  • YOU KEEP TRYING TO RETURN TO YOUR OLD RELATIONSHIP
  • YET YOU OFTEN WONDER…
  • YOUR BOUNDARIES WILL NOT BE RESPECTED
  • YOU‟RE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
  • ENABLERS DO NOT BELIEVE YOU THEY PROTECT THE NPD
  • YOU ARE SILENCED
  • SILENCED
  • YOUR ABUSER WON‟T LET YOU GO THEY CRY CROCODILE TEARS
  • WELCOME TO THE CYCLE OF ABUSE
  • NO, YOU‟RE NOT CRAZY!!! THIS WHOLE SITUATION IS CRAZY MAKING
  • YOU‟VE BEEN „NARCISSISED‟ AND YOU NEVER KNEW …
  • UNTIL NOW
  • FINALLY THE PIECES FIT TOGETHER!
  • NO MORE RED FLAG CONFUSION
  • Please share these other links on Narcissistic Personality Disorder http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/narcissistic-victim- syndrome-a-powerpoint-by-jeni-mawter http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/moving-on-from- narcissistic-abuse-compiled-by-jeni-mawter
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